expectations

Lack of expectation creates a state of mind, which we often call "negative thinking". "Negative thinking", as its adjective may suggest, is considered an unfavorable stage. The opposite, "positive thinking" is normally considered favorable, but excessive expectations are hostile. You can expect someone or somthing to do something you feel favorable, but in reality, it rarely realizes.

I, as a positive thinking person, this feeling of betrayal really is disturbing. The truth is, as much as this betrayal staggers to, an unexpected happinesses are as much as strong in strength, only in different direction. Today, a event really made my happy. A call from my friend...although I did imagine some possible, I never expected anything. But it happened. Thank you!